What we remember shapes who we are and what we become. This is powerful in parenting. We help shape our kids by creating positive childhood memories and be there for them through the tough experiences.
Conflict will arise in a parent-child relationship. What is extremely important is that repair is done after any rupture that occurs. The more kids know their parents are their side, the stronger the relationship will be.
In order to develop a strong parent-child relationship, you must find ways to connect with your child. This means when they are acting the way you like them to and when they are not! Connect first before correction and you’ll be amazed at how they start to self-correct.
The absolutely best way to get kids to listen is to connect with them first. Before jumping into correcting, scolding, nagging or yelling, instead, take the time to make them know you see and hear them first. Here is the science behind why this works.